Are We Not Sisters?I am probably the most apolitical person that I know. By that I do not necessarily mean I am uninterested in politics, but rather that I can not bare politicians, almost none of them. I can not bear the studied sound of their political voices, the yearning and preaching that is so evident in their histrionics. I do, however, stand staunchly behind just causes and always have. Still, I am stepping forth in an unusual manner today, haunted by a film I viewed the other night.
The Stoning of Soraya M.For me it had been a day filled with blessings and joy. As I walked to my workshop Tuesday morning a bluebird streaked its blue just before my eyes, trilled its song, and lifted me high. That afternoon, I took a bike ride through the Reserve along the old road and the river; birds, butterflies, smells, sights, sounds of spring abounded so forcefully that on my return home, after hanging my bike, I felt larger than my body, so filled with joy was I.
That night we watched
The Stoning of Soraya M. It is difficult to find the words to talk about this. It was a graphic movie based upon a true story. I was riveted by it, and am haunted still.
I felt compelled to do some research on the internet only to find what I feared would be true, that this practice continues to this day in countries around the world.
This movie "was the story relayed to Freidoune Sahebjam by Soraya's brave aunt, Zahra Khanum. His riveting and spare account became an international best-seller. Critics compared "The Stoning of Soraya M." to Kafka, but actually nothing in the western cannon of literature is comparable to the inadvertent self-parody--the simply lunacy-- of a system of law that maintains that if a man is accused of infidelity by his wife, she must prove his guilt, but if a woman is accused, she must prove her innocence. Thus, in a single sentence, is a belief system codified. It is a system that rejects modernity, justice, equality and rationality--and treats female sexuality as a vice. Apparently, you can get away with this kind of madness in much of the world by simply inciting crowds to chant, "God is Great," while you throw stones."
(And Soraya was innocent...framed by her forced-marriage husband who wanted to wed a 14-year -old.)
"Soraya M's brutal execution occurred more than two decades ago, but it was only last October that a girl barely into her teens was stoned to death in a stadium in the Somalian port city of Kismayo. Initially, her "crime" was said to be adultery, and her age given as 23. Actually, according to Amnesty International, she was 13 years old, and she came into the custody of an Islamic militia when she had the temerity to report to authorities that she had been gang-raped. Her three attackers were not charged. The girl was publicly murdered before 1,000 cheering spectators. Her name was Aisha Ibrahim Duhulow." (Quotes from Carl M. Cannon, 5/09)
Her name was Soraya Manutchehre, she was 35 years old when she died. She had two young sons who took part in the stoning, as did her father.
I cannot understand my blessings nor bare my joy these days...